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-biggest sigh ever- Put down that glass of water: it's safe on any surface, now. I had my cat Northey euthanized yesterday afternoon.

She was still under the shade of the tree ferns where you in LJ land last saw her. At 3 PM, I'd gone out to check on her, and her breathing was harsh and labored, open-mouthed gasping. After two phone calls, we were on our way to the after-hours vet. A painful hour and a failed oxygen treatment later, she was dead in my arms.

Everyone is being really, really nice to me, considering that this is a cat that died after 13 very-cared-for years. Even her death expenses are mitigated for me by her cat health insurance. I find myself re-reading Jilly Cooper, sappy fiction where it's OK for characters to dissolve into endless tears over their dead animals.

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Date: 2011-11-27 08:10 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tatjna.livejournal.com
It's ok for people in real life to dissolve into endless tears over their dead animals too. I do it regularly.

Date: 2011-11-27 09:20 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tyellas.livejournal.com
Good to know I have company...

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Date: 2011-11-27 09:21 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tyellas.livejournal.com
*HUGS* back.

Date: 2011-11-27 08:27 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] rednikki.livejournal.com
I'm so sorry. I remember Northey very fondly from my visits to you. She was the best of felines.

Date: 2011-11-27 09:24 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tyellas.livejournal.com
I'm deeply touched that you feel that way. Especially because you're allergic...and Northey was always a highly-allergy-inducing cat...quick, come visit me while I'm cat-free!

Date: 2011-11-27 08:57 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] r-ness.livejournal.com
Oh, no. I'm so sorry.


Date: 2011-11-27 09:25 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tyellas.livejournal.com
*more hugs back*

Send me another Maine Coon from New England?

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Date: 2011-11-27 09:30 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] edm.livejournal.com
My condolences for your loss. I'm glad you found her early on, and she was able to pass relatively painlessly. As [livejournal.com profile] tatjna says, real people cry too. Love's like that.


Re: Northey

Date: 2011-11-27 09:29 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tyellas.livejournal.com
She was in distress, with a very very poor prognosis, and we ended it. Still gutted here.

Date: 2011-11-27 09:56 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] rcfinch.livejournal.com
I'm very sorry about your loss. And crying is good!

Date: 2011-11-27 09:26 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tyellas.livejournal.com
Thank you. Crying is good...and that's good because there will be more, I think.

Date: 2011-11-27 10:01 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] perelleth.livejournal.com
This news brought tears to my eyes, so of course you're dissolving into tears. She was worth it and more.

Date: 2011-11-27 09:15 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tyellas.livejournal.com
She was worth it and more.

Totally. Thank you for your empathy. I had Northey for nearly 1/3 of my life.

Date: 2011-11-27 10:40 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] pombagira.livejournal.com
like tatjna said, it is all fine for real life people to dissolve into endless tears over the death of their animals, i have every time


Date: 2011-11-27 10:42 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] pombagira.livejournal.com
also.. wonderful photo she looks like an awsome cat, love the coloring..very glamorous girl!♥

Date: 2011-11-27 09:13 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tyellas.livejournal.com
Thank you so so much. She was awesome. And huge.

Date: 2011-11-27 11:20 am (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] eyebrowofdoom.livejournal.com
What a beautiful cat!

Animals are often the nicest people we know; I don't think there is anything to apologise for there. :)

Date: 2011-11-27 09:11 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tyellas.livejournal.com
Thank you! Even at the Final Vet, when I drew her out of the carry case, the vet tech couldn't help but exclaim, "That's a gorgeous cat."

Date: 2011-11-27 12:21 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] altariel.livejournal.com
Lots of love xx

Date: 2011-11-27 09:11 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tyellas.livejournal.com
thank you, hon!

Date: 2011-11-27 04:03 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] eregyrn.livejournal.com
I'm so sorry. It's never something easy to go through, but knowing when to do what's best for them is often the hardest part. I think it gets harder when they HAVE been your companion for so long.

I know I will be dissolving in endless tears when it's Emily's time, something I don't want to think about happening for many years yet. (But I'm constantly paranoid about cancer.) Hell, I'm tearing up now just thinking about it... time to go distract myself.


Date: 2011-11-27 09:09 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tyellas.livejournal.com
Weirdly, I wasn't paranoid about cancer - but it looks like that's what it was. Either that or a Maine Coon specific heart disease that her sire may have died of.

Be good to your cat girl on my behalf!

Date: 2011-11-27 05:30 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] snottygrrl.livejournal.com
i'm so sorry, sweets.

::cuddles you close::

Date: 2011-11-27 09:08 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tyellas.livejournal.com
Thank you, hon, I know you understaaaaaaaaand.

Date: 2011-11-27 05:46 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] darthhellokitty.livejournal.com
I am so sorry. You took such good care of her, and she knew you loved her. I will hug my kitties in her memory.

Date: 2011-11-27 09:07 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tyellas.livejournal.com
Yes, please do that. Hug them every day. I spoiled Northey on the Thursday night before going to the vet, and I'm so glad I did.

Date: 2011-11-27 06:30 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] vulgarweed.livejournal.com
I'm so, so sorry. It never gets any easier, maybe a good cathartic cry is the best thing for you right now. It's certainly justified.

What a beauty! You gave her a good life, and she knew she was loved til the very end and beyond.

Date: 2011-11-27 09:06 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tyellas.livejournal.com
Thanks, hon. There's a couple of cathartic weeping sessions pencilled in.

Date: 2011-11-27 09:05 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] celandineb.livejournal.com
{{hugs}} So sorry, hon. And of course you will mourn... that is totally OK.

Date: 2011-11-27 09:07 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tyellas.livejournal.com
Thank you, my dear! At the "coping" stage over here.

Date: 2011-11-27 09:09 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] telperion1.livejournal.com
Aww, honey, I'm so sorry. It really is okay to cry; people can be quite close to their animal familiars. Not that I need to tell you that.


Date: 2011-11-27 09:16 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tyellas.livejournal.com
Thank you. She was something else.

Date: 2011-11-27 09:22 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] fenriss.livejournal.com
I am so very sorry, Em. I know the feeling so well, and dissolving into tears is perfectly natural. I send hugs.

Date: 2011-11-27 09:35 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tyellas.livejournal.com
Thanks, love! Great to hear from you.

Date: 2011-11-27 09:43 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] teaforme.livejournal.com
Aw Northey, rest in peace.

My eyes are teary, and I never met her. You're in my thoughts!

Date: 2011-11-27 10:34 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tyellas.livejournal.com
Thank you so much! I can't remember if you have cats yourself - dreadful of me...

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Date: 2011-11-27 10:05 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] raqs.livejournal.com
Oh hon, I am so sorry. Northey had a great life and contributed much to yours. I know what it's like when it's just the two of you for a while and one has to go away. But you made Northey famous! She will be much remembered.

Date: 2011-11-27 10:43 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tyellas.livejournal.com
Famous? As with the posts on my Little Old Lady, that wasn't the idea so much as posting about Important Interesting Thing In My Life. And then you all got interested too. Northey was also amusingly photogenic - the Internet Is Made Of Cats, after all. I was going to post more pictures, but, tears.

With everything occurring on planet Earth right now* my grief over a pet animal is a pebble in the sea of greater happenings. But it's my pebble, and I'll carry it a long way.

* For example, the same day Northey died, we had an election in NZ and the conservatives won, which is such bad news some folks I know are taking a news vacation to keep from exploding. I had voted, by the way.

Date: 2011-11-28 06:20 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gilraen-surion.livejournal.com
So sorry to hear that you grand dame has left you. Somehow seeing you without her popping up for some attention will be different.

She had a great cared for and lovely long life, still it is sad. I know you will miss her, and her purring in your lap. I will miss her too in my own way.

*big hugs*

Date: 2011-11-28 06:26 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tyellas.livejournal.com
-hugs- You were the person beside me who knew her the best. She lived in your house for 6 months!!! And when she died, I thought of you and your cat Plato, and how sad that was. -more hugs-
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Date: 2011-11-28 08:44 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tooticky.livejournal.com
It's never wrong to cry over the death of someone you love. I still miss my cat Mog, who died aged 16 in similar circumstances in 2008. One of the hardest things about leaving our old house for usuakari and I was that that was where we buried her, wrapped in my cardigan.
Northey looks like a beautiful cat from her glamour shot, by the way. You've always got to watch the tortiseshells. :)

Date: 2011-11-28 10:13 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tyellas.livejournal.com
Thank you. It's good for me to hear from other pet owners who've also had a hard time with pet loss. And it's with your "leaving behind" concern in mind that I had her cremated.

Date: 2011-11-28 04:21 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] oracne.livejournal.com
I am so sorry.

Date: 2011-11-28 10:10 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tyellas.livejournal.com
Thank you!

Date: 2011-11-28 08:48 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] aanor.livejournal.com
Very sorry for your loss. And so sudden, too. Thirteen years is a good long run for a cat. She was lucky to have you to care for her and give her a loving home.

Date: 2011-11-28 10:11 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tyellas.livejournal.com
Oh, thank you. Dealing with a cat-shaped hole in my existence. And she was a big cat, so it's a big hole.

Date: 2011-11-29 08:59 am (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] wildilocks.livejournal.com
Very sorry to hear, our kitties are so dear to us, there is nothing wrong with grieving *huge hugs*

Date: 2011-11-29 08:37 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tyellas.livejournal.com
Thank you! *hugs back*
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